Lessons from the Adoptive Journey

Whether you have adopted or have been adopted, there are lessons to learn. Come learn with us …

Marcellus George wants you to share what you have learned on the adoptive journey. In the New Testament, there are three major metaphors for our new relationship with God. The first is being “born again.” The second is being “redeemed” (from being a slave to sin and to Satan). The third is being “adopted” by the Heavenly Father. There are many nuances to this idea. One is that the Heavenly Father chose freely to adopt you. The second is that we, as His children, choose to be adopted every day.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved.

Ephesians 1:3-6

(ESV)

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Marcellus George and his loving wife are the adoptive parents of (now adult) twin sons. He is the author of numerous articles and devotions, has a Ph.D. in theology, and speaks on the subject of adoption. He is fascinated by God’s description of His adoption of us, and how that correlates with his own adoption story.

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