Jan 29, 2021 | Challenges In Adoption, Parenting
I recently stayed with a lovely family who had lost a young child. She had died as a result of burns to her body from yanking a pot of boiling water off the stove, splashing it onto herself. The family was rightfully grieving her death and wondering what, if anything,...
Dec 30, 2020 | Challenges In Adoption, Children's Adaptation, Parenting
I look outside and I see snow covering everything. It covers the yard, the sidewalks, the driveway, and the street. It is our reminder that winter has come. Snow had been described as both pure and beautiful, but I sometimes wish there wasn’t so much of it. Thing is,...
Nov 30, 2020 | Challenges In Adoption, Parenting
This time of year, leaves flutter everywhere. You rake and rake and rake. It is hard to believe that it wasn’t that long ago that you rejoiced to see the new growth on the trees ushering in spring. Now, sadly, the leaves have fallen. These leaves represent, in so many...
Sep 30, 2020 | Challenges In Adoption
It was the perfect weekend. Like the calm on a lake on a summer day, we had experienced renewed energy from our fun time together. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, a storm brewed where our adopted children decided to defy us. We felt the frustration from having had our...
Jul 30, 2020 | Challenges In Adoption
“Pray for [our adopted daughter]. She and I have had some difficult conversations lately that were very disheartening. … So far away spiritually.” So read a text from one of our friends recently. The disconnect between the bond of adoption and the adopted adult’s...
Jun 29, 2020 | Children's Adaptation
Of the many games we played with our sons after they were adopted, their favorite was “hide and seek.” They had their preferred places in hide inside our house, including in the bathtub (behind the shower curtain) and in an empty box in our spare bedroom. When we...
Apr 30, 2020 | God's Adoption of His Children
“How many different ways can you describe our new life in Christ?” my friend asked me during a casual discussion. “Normally, we think of three different analogies to help describe our new relationship with our Heavenly Father,” I answered. “The first one that most of...